Most of what we think and believe about what has to happen to
"HAVE" a mutually happy relationship is in our subconsciousness.
And our subconsciousness is 85% of our mindset.
Does that grab your attention?
But don't worry, there IS a way to access the subconscious and change these beliefs in a proven, systematic way. There IS a way to feel completely cherished adored, happy and completely loved without the cooperation of your man. And this can happen fairly quickly for you.
Ok, let’s start by saying . . . You know in your heart that you want to be connected with your current man, or the man you are about to meet in deeper, more loving and connected ways.
But you’re tired of investing all your time, energy into having a relationship that feels disconnected at best, and disrespectful at worst. You are emotionally spent. Trust with men is faltering or gone. In a nutshell you are miserable. Sometimes you feel anxious, sometimes furious, you may be sleepless, and scared. There is little sex, (or he's the only one enjoying it ) and hardly any fun ... you just are NOT at peace. You wonder, is this all there is?
You thought you've been doing everything the right way, but secretly you are starting to wonder if having an intimate, mutually loving, trustworthy relationship is even possible for you.
No matter what you do, nothing seems to "work". You always feel unloved. You may wonder if something is wrong with you.
Or, if you do have a few days of fun and connection, it just doesn't last and you both go back to how its always been. Not Happy.
And that feels empty, disconnected and, sad. It feels like you're never going to find true love & happiness in this lifetime. So you settle for less. You just take what is given. Or you just stay single.
What You Might Not Know
Its not doing more for him, its not agreeing with what he wants, always putting him ahead of you, its not figuring out what to do next, taking the lead in bed, Its not pointing out what he does, or what he doesn't do right.
It's NEVER him. Its NEVER outside of yourself.
Its becoming more intimate with YOU that magically attracts men to you and deepens passionate committed connection.
Its learning to trust YOU that magically attracts trustworthy men.
That means getting even more connected to your FEELINGS, to know what you want, and what you DON'T want and expressing your deepest needs and desires in ways that draw you closer to him, not farther away.
It means learning HOW to act and receive with your natural feminine nature.
AND it means learning how to ALLOW him love you. Because he can't love YOU if you don't let him see the TRUE you.
Yes, the thought of that probably scares you to your core. I know it did for me.
But, if you want the intimacy you say you want, you must connect with your AUTHENTIC self.
And that is done by unconditionally loving yourself first ... Gathering the courage to love ALL of you. The good, the bad, the wanted, the unwanted.
(PLUS real life relationship strategies that naturally fuel love, passion and connection)
It is a path of self love & enlightenment. Which also happens to be how you help heal our world, because happiness spreads.
How Do I Love Myself?
Well, the path to TRUE self love (which is loving yourself unconditionally) all the way to your core, is more than dating yourself & getting massages.
Its a journey of deep reflection and healing, of letting go of forgotten old wounds, injustices, and outdated survival programing.
When that "baggage" has lifted, when you have fully accepted yourself, the good, the bad, the ugly . . . what is left is YOU.
Not the "you" you are supposed to be, need to be, have to be, but the "you" that you've been longing for. That is when you connect with the YOU that you really are.
When you show YOU, the REAL you, that is when he can see YOU ... and connect with YOU. Not some version of you you thought he would like.
And that does take courage, commitment & determination to Love Yourself this deeply.
And it takes an experienced guide that has taken this journey before, who knows the in's and out's of the subconscious, how to navigate it to find and untangle blocks in a complete and systematic way.
You wouldn't climb Mount Everest without an experienced guide, right?
The same for the journey to clear subconscious blocks, the parts of you you are unaware are running the show behind your back, and love yourself this deeply and completely.
This journey to self requires a guide who's already gone there.
"My system of Loving Yourself & Believing It this deeply is complete and PERSONALIZED. When you clear subconscious blocks you can naturally enjoy deeper levels of authentic connection, passion, happiness, and fulfillment"
How to Clear Subconscious Blocks?
My system of transformation uses the psychological map of the chakra system to identify WHERE the blocks are, and EFT or Tapping to Clear them Away.
EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique), also known as tapping, and NLP (Neurolinguistic Programing) have become popular proven tools for clearing subconscious blocks and realizing goals.
Limiting beliefs and fears keep people stuck repeating their current "patterns" of living. They keep people stuck feeling the same way on the inside, no matter what happens on the outside.
EFT is a proven tool of transformation that uses the finger tips to tap on acupuncture points on the face and body while emotionally tuning in to negative attitudes and past experiences, which allows people to change their thoughts and feelings from negative and limiting to positive and empowering.
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Its extremely easy to do and the results are quick, powerful and amazing!
Here's What You Need to Know About Me
~ After divorcing from an unhappy marriage, I went from attracting a slew of unavailable men to enjoying the most romantic, connected mutually happy relationship ever. And after 5 years of being together, we continue to deepen our connection.
~ I've been trained and certified as a transformation / life coach since 1999, and again in 2017 as a Ignite Your Power Certified Coach with Emphasis on Self Love & Success Blocks.
~ I understand you because I've taken this journey myself, and gone from feeling nothing inside, to the most indescribable heights of personal pleasure, fulfillment happiness and connection I've never dreamed was possible.
~ I am a life long personal development and transformation geek . . . Its REALLY easy for me to see your "stuff" and guide you to let it go.
~ I use Universal Principles as a frame work to live and run my business by. They are the foundation of TRUTH I guide my clients to embrace and follow.
~ I use NLP (Neurolinguistic Programing) Techniques and EFT (Emotional Freedom Techniques) as tools of transformation not only because they are quick, effective and permanent, but because they have been proven as useful tools to shift emotions, change beliefs and realize goals.
~ We all have a dream of what intimacy & happiness looks like. I’m here to help you make that dream happen for you!
So if you’re ready to LOVE YOURSELF AND BELIEVE IT, reach out to me and make it happen!
Don & I in Cabo San Lucas
Together we'll spend an hour getting clear about what you want, diagnose YOUR PARTICULAR blocks to love and I'll offer you a personalized solution package.
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