What are You Resisting & What is It Costing You?
The Rebel in us can absolutely get triggered in day to day life and it totally LOVES to be stubborn.
"You can't make me", "I refuse", "I won't do that", "Screw You ... Screw Everyone".
This kind of stubbornness can be a really great sign of strong boundaries, AND it can show up as a strong defensive pattern of resistance to becoming successful with our money story and in our businesses ...
... It's our personal armor that puts a boundary around what we feel comfortable doing or not doing.
"I wont believe that I can change my money story", "I'll never trust that the universe has my back", "I won't get into action and be too powerful"
And then there is the "backward spiral" that can rear its ugly head in defiance and push back after we make really great progress in our business.
... like when we have a very profitable month and then its cancelled out somehow with some kind of "financial fire" that brings us back to the same level of profits.
... like when we step up and take action out past our comfort zones to promote ourselves and do well ... and afterwords we feel massive amounts of doubt, anxiety, or shame and just want to bury our heads and hide.
This resistance pattern has been with us so long it can become a part of our identity. After all, it is just who we are, right? We just have to accept that part of ourselves and work around it right?
NO, there is DEFINITELY a way to shift deeply ingrained resistance patterns so you can allow yourself to: ~ trust ~ believe ~ allow ~ feel safe ~ get into action
But, to change who we are can make us feel really lost as to who we would be IF we let go of silently refusing to let progress change our life, our business, our money story, our love life for the better.
How to clear it?
FIRST: Well, just like the 7 Habits guy, Stephen Covey recommends, begin with the end in mind.
In this case, who would you be, what could you have if you did not have this defensive pattern in place?
OMG, for most of us just thinking about that can trigger all kinds of fears and resistance, but if the resistance wasn't there, who could you be and what could you accomplish?
And what would be a first baby step to becoming that, if you could step forward with only 80% of that resistance in place?
Those questions help you to conceptualize a new identity for yourself that gets your mind used to the idea of you BEING someone different. So you have something to take the place of automatic defensive patterns that have been in the way of stepping up and out in life, with your biz or with your money story. Can you imagine how it would affect your love life and relationships too?
SECOND: Tap away the resistance with proper EFT scripting. Regular EFT or tapping just doesn't shift this defensive pattern, but voicing the shadow side origins of defensive patterns does ... and you can get access to this kind of tapping in the Positive Affirmation Tapping Club, video vault and during the live training calls that happen once per month. POSITIVE AFFIRMATION TAPPING CLUB
As always, feel free to reach out to me to find out HOW I can help you shift your mindset to become even more aligned with money & success.
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Sending Love & Light,