Why Is It So Hard to Love Yourself and How it Can Change Your World
Loving yourself is the foundation for living a great life and running a most profitable biz that serves many. When you love yourself first, everything falls into place. But many times it’s really hard to love yourself even though you try.
The sad truth is, most of us have NO CLUE HOW TO REALLY love yourself … because loving yourself requires that you believe that you love yourself from your deepest core levels. Loving yourself is a mindset that you choose.
Most self help books talk about loving yourself by doing things for yourself that you would do for others… like dating yourself… long walks on the beach, reading a book, taking a bath candle light dinners, shopping sprees just for you …are all very nice things, and make you feel good in the moment, but those nice dates we take ourselves on, at best, scratch the surface and usually do nothing to change how we think or feel about ourselves that lasts.
How you treat yourself and what you are able to attract into your life is intimately tied to what you believe and feel about yourself.
If you love yourself, life is easy. When you are lacking love for yourself, life becomes hard.
This is because not loving yourself is in direct conflict with the Divine. The Divine is the source of all things based in Love. By definition, the Divine Loves You unconditionally. The harder and more difficult your life experiences, the father away from self love you are.
When it comes to growing your biz and meeting your goals, feeling confident asking for what you want and getting it, if you don’t love yourself enough, believe in yourself enough, you’re gonna struggle to experience those things.
Psychologists have proven that what we believe about ourselves is 90% unconscious. Every single one of us ‘program’ our belief system by self defining ourselves during our childhood. We define our abilities to feel safe & deserving, to receive and enjoy pleasurable things, people and emotions, to walk comfortably in our skin and talk kindly to ourselves during our childhood … and 90% of this programming lives in our subconscious… directing the feelings and experiences of our lives thru our belief system. … which in turn determines behavior.
Think about it, what you decided to believe about yourself as a child, under the age of 10 is ruling your your behavior as an adult.
Is it possible to change your belief system and go from denying yourself, limiting yourself and beating yourself up to totally loving yourself unconditionally?
YES!!! 100% possible!
The difficulty is identifying lifting and shifting these negative, limiting beliefs and replacing them with positive empowering beliefs based in Love and the Truth of Who You Really Are… which is your Divine right, no matter what you’ve done or not done, and no matter what others believe about you. You get to define yourself
This is why it is so hard to Love Your Self. When you consciously make a decision and take action to “market and launch that new product, program or service ” or attract 10,000 customers to your list, and your unconscious is wired to keep yourself safe from letting people REALLY see you and know who you are… the good, the bad and the down right ugly … you’ll struggle.
Even if you find a way to launch that product or attract those customers, the results will be temporary. You won’t be able to keep meeting those goals, some sort of self sabotage will show up and set you back, no matter what you do . Because your programming is wired to NOT accept it.
So, if we unconsciously think we don’t deserve a thriving biz… all we attract is struggle, frustration and stuckness. … or sabotage ourselves to never feel “good enough” for the biz and the lofty income goals we really want.
If we unconsciously think we can’t be a millionaire, or if being wealthy was frowned upon by our family and friends we won’t be able to meet those financial goals, or if we do, we unconsciously find a way to loose the good thing we had.
How Loving Yourself Can Change Your World
Loving yourself is the key to your personal freedom. It is a magical way of being that makes your biz and your life totally enjoyable, happy and abundant . It’s the path you need to take when struggle and constant striving overwhelm and frustrate you and do not bring you your deepest desires.
The more you love yourself, magical things like:
- Relationships becoming even more connected, deep and passionate
- Meeting your income goals
- Customers that raving about you and paying you well
- New Resources and Opportunities
- Working LESS with BETTER Results
- Less Stress
- New Found Confidence
- More Support, Joy & Pleasure
Seem to fall right into your lap.
Loving yourself is a powerful force that affects every single aspect of your world. No more listening to your inner critic, no more listening to that voice telling you that you’re not good enough; no more settling for less than you deserve. Self-love empowers you to make healthy decisions that serve you in the highest good.
Self-love is your divine responsibility. When you commit to a deep, loving relationship with self, your world will positively shift in the most incredible ways.